„Anthony Hopkins“
– let go of people who are not good for you
Let go the people who are not ready to love you.
This is the hardest thing you have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing.
Stop having difficult conversations with people who don’t want to change.
Stop appearing for people who have no interest in your presence.
I know your instinct is to do whatever it takes to gain the appreciation of those around you, but it’s an impulse that saps your time, energy, mental and physical health.
When you start fighting for a living with joy, interest, and commitment, not everyone will be willing to follow you to that place.
This doesn’t mean that you have to change who you are, but that you have to let go of the people who are not willing to accompany you.
If you are left out, insulted, forgotten, or ignored by the people you give your time to, you are doing yourself a disservice by continuing to offer your energy and life to them.
The truth is that you are not for everyone and not everyone is for you.
That’s what makes it so special when you find people with whom you’ve reciprocated friendship or love.
You will know how valuable it is because you have experienced what it is not.
There are billions of people on this planet and many of them will find you at your level of interest and commitment.
If you stop showing up, they might not be looking for you.
If you stop trying, the relationship may end.
If you stop texting, your phone will stay dark for weeks.
This doesn’t mean that you ruined the relationship, but that the only thing that kept it going was the energy that only you gave to sustain it.
That’s not love, that’s connection.
Giving a chance to those who don’t deserve it!
You deserve so much more.
The most valuable thing you have in your life is your time and energy because both are limited.
The people and things you give your time and energy to will define your existence.
When you realize this, you begin to understand why you are so anxious about spending time with people, activities, or spaces that don’t suit you and shouldn’t be around you.
You will begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for yourself and everyone around you is guard your energy more fiercely than anything else.
Make your life a safe haven where only people are „compatible“ with you.
You are not responsible for saving anyone.
You are not responsible for convincing them to get better.
It is not your job to exist for people and give them your life!
„Anthony Hopkins“
– let go of people who are not good for you
Let go the people who are not ready to love you.
This is the hardest thing you have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing.
Stop having difficult conversations with people who don’t want to change.
Stop appearing for people who have no interest in your presence.
I know your instinct is to do whatever it takes to gain the appreciation of those around you, but it’s an impulse that saps your time, energy, mental and physical health.
When you start fighting for a living with joy, interest, and commitment, not everyone will be willing to follow you to that place.
This doesn’t mean that you have to change who you are, but that you have to let go of the people who are not willing to accompany you.
If you are left out, insulted, forgotten, or ignored by the people you give your time to, you are doing yourself a disservice by continuing to offer your energy and life to them.
The truth is that you are not for everyone and not everyone is for you.
That’s what makes it so special when you find people with whom you’ve reciprocated friendship or love.
You will know how valuable it is because you have experienced what it is not.
There are billions of people on this planet and many of them will find you at your level of interest and commitment.
If you stop showing up, they might not be looking for you.
If you stop trying, the relationship may end.
If you stop texting, your phone will stay dark for weeks.
This doesn’t mean that you ruined the relationship, but that the only thing that kept it going was the energy that only you gave to sustain it.
That’s not love, that’s connection.
Giving a chance to those who don’t deserve it!
You deserve so much more.
The most valuable thing you have in your life is your time and energy because both are limited.
The people and things you give your time and energy to will define your existence.
When you realize this, you begin to understand why you are so anxious about spending time with people, activities, or spaces that don’t suit you and shouldn’t be around you.
You will begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for yourself and everyone around you is guard your energy more fiercely than anything else.
Make your life a safe haven where only people are „compatible“ with you.
You are not responsible for saving anyone.
You are not responsible for convincing them to get better.
It is not your job to exist for people and give them your life!